Hello everyone :D!!!!
I find it unbelievable, but it’s have actually been four days since we got married :D! Just like what flying Paper did yesterday, I’m gonna recollect what happened on our Big Day today :)!!!!
The super duper busy day actually started 24 hours earlier! There was really a lot of things to settle the day before, such as the collection of gowns and bridal car décor, and since Flying Paper and I can’t meet each other according to Chinese customs, I enlisted the help of my bestest buddy (ever!) and his wonderful gal :)!

Introducing Joyce and Lucas :)!
Seriously, without the help of these two wonderfuls I couldn’t have managed with the hectic tasks on the Eve! Buddy, I know you are reading this: I will do my best to look for a Japanese D300 brochure for you when I’m in Japan :)!
I thought I will drift into dreamland relatively easy because of all the running around I did, but I have no idea how wrong I was! I went to bed at 11pm, but was so excited I only slept at around 2am I guess. . . . Then I woke up at 4am and couldn’t fall back to sleep thereafter. I was filled with memories of my courtship of Flying Paper, and all the nitty-gritty details of the wedding, even the weather because according to the weatherman, there were supposed to be thunderstorms over the weekend. You can thus understand that I’m incredible envious of Wifey Paper, who had no problems whatsoever with her beauty sleep :D!
Finally, the morning arrived, and I was most thankful because it was the most lovely bright and sunny morning :D! My dearest groomsmen, Yang Yang, Jeffrey, Lam and of course Lucas arrived really early, and after a quick briefing, we set off to Flying Paper’s home :)! The bridesmaids were there waiting for us, and I bet the evil beautiful姐妹 s had a great time subjecting us to humiliating acts and of course grabbing lots of $$$, muahahaha ;). . . .
We cleared their challenges, and I know all the ‘torture’ and the bittergroud juice was worth it because when I opened the bridal door, I saw the most beautiful angel waiting for me in her snow-white gown :)
What happened after that was really a big blur: the photo-taking and videography session at Bottle Tree Park, and of course the tea-ceremonies at our respective parents’ places, during which I finally get to call uncle and auntie ‘pa’ and ‘ma’ now, haha :D. . . . And finally we were off to Swissotel Stamford :)!
Again, it was a big rush as there were several rehearsals to go through and meetings to attend. To make matters even more complicated, there were several last minute behind-the-scene hiccups which almost gave me a heart attack! Luckily though, I had the best team around to help me out:
1) The video montage didn’t work initially due to compatibility issues with my laptop! Fortunately, the wonderful Chris of Visio Workz, our videographer, was most prompt in attending to us and even sent a DVD player down all the way from her office! O must also praise the resourcefulness of Yang Yang and Jeffrey, my great 兄弟s, who managed to work around the compatibility issues and got the montage playing on the lappy!
2) As usual, seating arrangements were a major headache! Due to several last minute additional guests as well as friends who couldn’t make it at the last minute, my receptionists had to do plenty of juggling. Kudos to the wonderful team of Peiyun, Sufen, Yang Zi, Nicole and Desmond :)!
3) I actually only confirmed my sword bearers 2 weeks before the event, and it’s amazing how the guys managed to do such a great job despite the short notice! A special word of thanks to Uzi, Thorns, Hiszoid, Forex, Celtic, Tonguesten, Mimic, Bono, and not forgetting Bubble (for offering to rehearse as my ‘bride’ :D) and Fido (for the coordination!). You guys rocked!
4) Ningjia’s help as the bridesmaid was invaluable: I lost count of the times the poor girl had to scramble up and down from the suite to the lobby and ballroom to ensure our parents find their way and also to bring all the items needed for the wedding are in place. Haha, now that’s what I call a great FYP mate :)!
5) I couldn’t involve my childhood friends in the critical parts of the wedding preparation as they were either heavily involved in parenting (Yanxing), or partying (Evan). But when I needed their help the most, they didn’t definitely didn’t’ shy away: a big Thank You to Yanxing and Evan for helping me down the red wine :)!
6) Despite having little or no prior experience, Lucas and Peishan gave us a big ‘YES’ when we approached them to be our emcees for the evening! I am most thankful to them for the wonderful job they did, and also for not subjecting us to any embarrassing games during the dinner, heh ;)
7) Once again, to Lucas, my Best Man :)! The Man helped me in every aspect of the wedding, and despite suffering near heart-attacks as I did, still had the presence of mind to ensure everything was smoothly executed. I seriously have no idea what more I can ask for from such a great pal, especially after a ‘special gift’ that came from him, heh ;)
8) Besides being armed with the bestest Best Man and Team, we are also most thankful for having chose Swissotel Stamford because they provided us with the most wonderful coordinators :D! Kudos to Gladys, our wedding coordinator for being patient with all our enquiries and requests from Day One till our Big Day, and to Hai Tao, our wedding concierge, for ensuring that everything was running smooth on throughout the dinner :)!
9) Finally, to all the wonderful people who were there with us as we said ‘I Do’, and to you, for reading and supporting this blog and being with us as we chronicled our wedding journey :)
It’s been an incredible one-year preparation, and like what Flying Paper mentioned, I also feel a bit sad that the wedding has been completed! But looking into Flying Paper’s eyes, slipping our rings into each others’ fingers and exchanging our matrimonial vows, I know that we have so much more in our life to look forward to :). . . .

Our life has just began, we've finally found each other :). . . .
With Love,
Barneysaurus
Honeymoon at the land of the Rising Sun :)!